As you grow up you learn that there’s no happily ever after no super heroes that imagining and dreaming won’t lead you very far in facts it your actions take you somewhere.
I had so many dreams of a life that I saw as perfect in fact it wasn’t a life that had a lot of money although it would’ve been better I guess when you grow up the way I did your happiest with what others take for granted.
Not that it was so bad its just my dreams were restricted because of circumstances that were not in my control.
Some people take there lives for granted the opportunities they are given is the thing that they really need no matter how hard it is, I guess you have to unable to have those opportunities to really attain because you have this need to do better then is expected of you, so to those who had things opportunities handed to you on a silver platter do not be surprised when you see people with less then you succeeding because you had the chance but blew it because you wanted to fit in you could have been a successful outcast at the end of the day the success would have been what gets you through and the people who stuck around should be in your life because those people are true.
I’m a young woman and one thing that’s always bugged me is we always have a problem with our weight.
A moment on the lips a lifetime on the hips that saying is bull to me if your so concerned about gaining weight exercise eat healthily after you eat that one food you think will cause you to gain weight why want surgery, why want to try ridiculous diets plus if you were meant to be big boned then maybe fighting it will catch up to you if you were meant to be super skinny you will be just live healthily you’ll be the way you were intended to be not skinny wearing baggy clothes or big and squeezing yourself into things that just highlight it. Come on now women are meant to be presentable and not look all over the place. Your outward appearance is what you need to take care of because people judge you on their first outward appearance now if you binging or starving yourself people won’t really want to approach you because the generation we live in now people want healthy people around them.
Be healthy not worry about your weight when there’s nothing really wrong with you only time you should worry about your weight is when your heart has problems or you so frail its become easy to get sick.
SO PLEASE WAKE THE FUCK UP and realise its time you worry about eating well and not getting sick instead of worrying about if you can fit in something or if your bum not to big or too big.
“Love”—Love hurts we have our hearts broken we love unselfishly we try not to get hurt, we wanna try love someone despite being hurt, we want to give our all to someone because we feel they deserve it. We love because we’re weak we love because our hearts are our biggest flaw it chooses who we love even if we get hurt it chooses them we love them and we don’t even know why.
If there is one trend that has emerged as the common denominator across all the collections for spring, I’d say the peplum is it. I put peplum in my “had me at hello” category, along with bows and ruffles. It’s a simple ode to days long gone, where the thrill of life was simply in a frill.
So I’m not that old but with the things I have to live through I’ve learnt so much.
I thought I’d experienced the worst of the worse until something changed my life in my opinion for the worst at that time it felt as though the world had turned its back on me I had no one to even cheer me on. It resulted in me making a decision that changed my life changed me became more withdrawn, I pushed people away because I just didn’t want anyone to know I didn’t want to be judged more looked down at and criticised more, after all I’m a very flawed human being who makes mistakes everyday I don’t want to be judged.
I learnt that when you scared and things aren’t going so well for you people you care about don’t give a damn about you even though your going through something life changing, although you become stronger it would really be nice to turn to someone. So after it all I pushed someone I care about and punished hurt them because I blamed them, and I wanted them to hurt the way I was.
You never really know who truly cares about you, you may never know you learn from your mistakes but some mistakes are choices you shouldn’t have made because they weren’t meant to be mistakes. Sometimes we hurt people we love and care about to push them away, hurt them and protect them when they don’t need to be protected.
Sometimes we need that little voice to do the right ,I really wish I had listen to it, sometimes we need to swallow our pride and do something despite the consequences just do it because it right to you and for you, sometimes I wish I could build a time machine just to change that one event and followed my heart and listened to that little voice, or at least a second chance. Tomorrow isn’t promised today but one second chance could change the life of someone, or atleast make someone’s today brighter.
I know now more then I did yesterday ,more then I did a month ago ,a week ago and even though I’ve made mistakes can’t help always thinking if I could turn back time and re do something or change that one event things would be fine nowa
A real woman is not the woman who wears so much make up, or looks beautiful all the time has the best clothes, yes fashion is a comfort but its a luxury a real woman well she’s…
The woman who is a mother who’s tired and stress but loves her family and would never trade her family for all the money it the world.
She’s that girl in university missing the parties and all that to get her degree so she can live a comfortable life.
The girl who was abused by someone and finds the courage to face each day, and be strong put a smile on her face and pretend nothing happened.
She’s the woman working two maybe three jobs to support her family coming home exhausted to smile and be with her family the single mother.
She’s that woman who can’t read but let her adversity stop from learning on her own.
A real woman is your mother ,older sister ,a cousin. she’s someone who doesn’t have the opportunities many others have.
She’s not some high paid actress who has great clothes, great body, great hair. in fact she probably seems tired and worn out but that’s her she’s real and beautiful bcause she’s so real because she’s that mother, that sister ,that amazing. She probably could be the woman fighting cancer, the woman being beaten she’s a true superhero because she has no super powers but she does her best. Celebrate and cherish these women there aren’t many roaming the earth.
It’s funny how I believed you when you said you loved me and would never hurt me again, its funny how I thought you’d acknowledge me when you’d do your best to hide me.
Its funny how you could turn on someone you claimed you’d protect. Its really funny you claimed to be willing to protect her but when it came time to protect her you nowhere to be found when she needed you. She supported you when no one else did she didn’t have to but she did because it was you.
Its funny how you blame her for all the bad when she was there to see the bad and loved you regardless, and still saw you through the bad, its funny how you say you’d never hurt her but you hurt her the most and left her there by herself again. You leave her to deal with the fall out. You promised her that you’d never hurt her, you took the coward’s way out.
Saddest part is she loves you even though you don’t deserve it saddest part is she cries herself to sleep wakes up in the morning puts on a brave face when she’d rather lie in bed and just cry or not even wake up. You used her after promising that you wouldn’t. Treated her like nothing called her names and made her feel stupid and she still loves you even after you treated her like nothing , broke your promises, and hid her from the world when she just wanted to be faithful to you, and not hide what she feels for you, when she wanted to be there in good times and support you in bad.
Its funny how if you had to come back she let you back open arms and broken heart. You ask yourself why she loves you but she knows why she takes what you give her, she knows why she puts herself through pain for you after you treated like no one.
Its funny how when she could’ve chosen someone who would’ve given her heaven and earth the heaven and earth you promised her but she chose you because truthfully she knows that you have to put up with pain to find something beautiful.
Sometimes in life you make decisions on your own that you later regret.
A year ago I made the one decision that changed my life a decision that to this day I wish I were dead. Apart of me died when I made this decision, at that time I felt as though I had no other choice I felt as though I was backed into a corner with no way out I prayed for a sign some sort of miracle but nothing came.
Apart of me died when I had made my decision, I felt so empty and cold, I’d cry and I’d stop to put on a strong face but inside I was crumbling, because I went against my beliefs, and lost something that was so important to. I made a decision that changed my life. The biggest mistake I could ever make. I regret many things but this is the only thing that I wish I could change, or at least get a second chance at. I’d give up almost anything to fix this even my life. I guess when you do something like that you kind of learn that nothing is enough to fix a mistake you’ve made.
I pray everyday for a sign, a second chance or a miracle. All I can do now is hope and pray for a better day a second chance.
Lost so much just because of one decision you yourself weren’t sure of, but you were scared ,alone and had no idea what else to do people judge you while your beating yourself up about it. Pray for a miracle
You left her when times got bad made, her feel like nothing and no one, but she stayed hoping that you’d see that she’s staying for you.
When times were hard for you she kept how she was feeling from you because she loved you. She was so scared to disappoint that she couldn’t tell you what she was going through but she stayed even though apart of her was dying slowly she stuck by you.
When she was sick she made an effort to seem okay you didn’t even notice her, she was your rock when no one was around when you had no money she was quite happy to sit and talk, she just wanted you to remember your anniversary and say happy anniversary it didn’t cost a cent or stand by her when she’s scared it doesn’t take the world.
Instead you’d leave her ditch her and she’d stand there waiting to mean as much as you claimed she meant, but instead you left her. No wonder she couldn’t tell you her biggest secret you left her when she needed you made her feel small so she was scared and she carries her secret but she stays she loves you when you don’t deserve it but only she knows why she puts herself through hell for you someone who doesn’t even notice her.
She tries her best to be there all the while your breaking her heart ,all the while she waits for you. She tries her best and you leave her claiming to love her but when she shows her heart you leave her you hurt but claim you love her. What love all she wanted wasn’t much she just wanted you to see that she cared, instead you’d belittle her when you’d leave her but she’d keep her head up and say she cares when you’d beat her down by telling her she doesn’t mean anything.
She sacrificed for you because she believed in you and your dreams. She was the girl you claimed you love but all you did was treat her like you hated her. She loved or still loves you yet your always looking for better when you know you love her and she has her flaws but you loved her with the flaws, you just seem to find it easier to push her aside while she waits for you. One day she’ll forget you and you’ll remember by then it’ll be too late then maybe just maybe you both would’ve missed out the love of your life because you treated her like less
HEY! Ladies alright so we all have different ideas on style, truthfully when it comes to going out and stuff like to places where you could meet new people its always essential that you try look timeless and elegant, you don’t wanna wear something too short or revealing common mistake made elegant doesn’t mean wearing something that shows your legs. The little black dress every girl’s best friend you can wear it and make it elegant throw a wrap belt on it and wear a pair of stilettos and you have a sophisticated look that looks almost effortless, for a more casual look a pair of sandals or ballet pumps a crop jacket or blazer adds a more fun look to the outfit now remember ladies the if you are slightly heavy make sure its the appropriate length and size because if the dress is too tight it could be a bit of a disaster and if its not that long you’ll find yourself adjusting it a lot.
When it comes to casual in my opinion the best thing that will never quiet go out of style for a while to come the skinny jean they’ve been around for decades and they still here today, a printed tee always a must simply because a tee is comfortable and you don’t have stress as much about it as you would for your favourite top, or blouse you can wear a tee with almost anything, stylish sneakers are a must you can do anything and your feet are comfortable so you can wear this to do almost anything.
Uggs love then don’t we all they pretty cute but ladies wearing uggs with a dress is a huge no-no, uggs are for winter look good with skinny’s, jeggings legging and sometimes a mini skirt but no way a dress you kinda making yourself look like a homeless bag lady. The next person I see wearing a pair of uggs and dress I will strip them of their uggs and beat some sense into them with their uggs ladies its disgusting.
Well everyone says a woman’s hair is her crowning glory which is true, but ladies experiment more I know every lady wanna look like a princess with long hair but short hair sometimes is pretty cooling and out of the box, its unique and in my honest opinion less of a hassle but easy to style and easy to be versatile with, I think if you as a woman can pull off short hair well you then your beautiful as short hair makes it easier for your face to stand out and highlights the features that many don’t notice when you have long hair.
Timeless! invest in a trench coat they are pretty stylish and remain stylish through the ages plus we all feel cold in winter but not those nasty trenches no ladies the lovely trenches that can be part of an outfit.
A problem I notice a lot is pregnant women don’t always have the greatest outfits ladies you don’t wanna look like bag lady you have to accentuate your pregnancy glow not hide it there are a lot of fashionable clothes that are made for you just don’t pick too baggy and things that look like tents, eeuw I absolutely find it disgusting when a lady wears a tee that hardly covers her belly there’s a baby there hello! Cover up your belly just to seem respectable and plus one day you daughter’s gonna be wearing a top with her stomach exposed to the world and she won’t even be pregnant or your son will bring his girl home and she’ll be wearing a short top so come on people cover up look respectable be a stylish expectant mother who others would love to look like.
Remember always be comfortable don’t wear something you don’t feel comfortable in and don’t show too much flesh its about being tasteful and stylish and having your own style set trends don’t follow them let them look at you and wish to look like you